Welcome back Ch3rry!
It is nice to see you around again.
I used to be very secretive about it, but I opened up to some of my best friends. I thought that was a mistake, and I still feel that way at times. It can complicate things.
I know what you mean. Telling your lover is ok but telling a friend can really make things weird.
I have a little experience with this too. I hindsight I wouldn't classify the people I told as friends but I thought differently at the time. It did make things very awkward. I don't think I've told my best friend but I don't think I have reason to.
I told my last Girlfriend that I liked bellies and belly buttons and she seemed very cool with it. Not long after that I summoned up the courage to tell her more but we ended up breaking up a day or two before I planned to tell her.
Is there a chat room around here? I really miss our chats.
That is a good question. I miss chatting too. If we don't have one hopefully we can get one soon.